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HOW TO BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND.

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HOW TO BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND.

 

SELF-LOVE

 

Self-love is one very important part of a person's life. Let me add by saying, self-love should be a lifestyle and not a one-day affair.  Love yourself truly, love yourself unreservedly. You cannot love the other person if you don't love the person that you have become, and the reason here is simple, you can't give away what you don't have. You've got to have it first before you can give it.

To be your own best friend you must love yourself unconditionally.

 

GIVE YOURSELF A PEP TALK

 

Ask yourself these two life-changing questions and give genuine answers to yourself. You know you can't lie to yourself.

 

What are my objectives?

 

Are these objectives in line with your passion?

 

Set daily, weekly, monthly, and annual objectives. Any person who loves him or herself should set high objectives.

Remind yourself that you are a person of character.

Look at yourself in the mirror and repeat these words to yourself.

I am a smart person.

I have unstoppable confidence.

I am courageous.

I am a risk-taker.

I am a good communicator

 

 

GIFT YOURSELF FIRST

 

Now that you have set the objectives, I can say that you are a step closer to reaching your desired goal of becoming your best own best friend. The best gift to give yourself is to work towards achieving your objectives. You know exactly what you want. What you should do. And what you should give in return. The best gift to give to yourself is; hard work, sacrifice, commitment, and determination. Give it first to yourself before you can have it back.

 

KEEP A SMILE

 

Because you are now committed to your commitments, develop a smile that will keep you going even when things do not turn out your way. You are done with the sowing part which is often the hardest, and very soon you will start reaping. Be happy with your effort at all times.

LIVE A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE 

You become exactly what you eat. You have to develop a plan, and your plan must include regular exercise and a properly balanced diet. It is easy to be your own best friend, just give your body and mind the best you can offer. And it doesn’t have to be perfect, just keep doing your best.

Decide today that you will be your own best friend. Be happy with what you have, and work to better yourself by taking genuine steps.

Develop a positive mental attitude.

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